Mark had a very active day. He began to talk and boy does he have a lot to say. Most of it pretty funny. He refers to his nurse as "The Soup Nazi". He says she has diagnosed him with some crazy disease I can't even begin to spell. He is trying to win all the doctors and nurses over with his carisma and I think he is succeeding. I know it's hard to imagine but you have to lean over close to him to hear him talk although I know that powerful load voice is still in there. He has become confused several times today but I am praying that is still due to the amount of time he has been down and amount medicine in his system.
He went through phase #1 of the swallow study and did good but Brad, the speech therapist will have to do some type of an exray in the morning as he swallow to insure everything is properly going down the esophagus vs the lungs.
We are anxiously awaiting the trauma surgeon to come and assess him. As I understand he is what stands between ICU and moving to a private room out of ICU. Tara, a social worker is working on getting us our options for possible transfer to Cape or Sikeston when he is ready.
The email I receive lift my spirits and I love each of you. Thank you for loving us so much. When something like this happens you need everyone in the support system to make it through. Don't think for a minute I am any super strong person each of you would do the same thing for that special person that means the world to you. He is still not really ready for visitors one now and then is OK but he so strong willed he seems to try to over perform to let them know he is going to be OK.
Hope you all received lots of treats and no tricks! For those of you who saw my little munchin tonight I know you squeezed him a little harder and made him realize what a special little guy he is. Thank you.
Love,
Stephanie
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Happy Happy Happy Halloween
Wow! We have had a wonderful morning. Our favorite respiratory therapist came in first thing and she had managed to get approval to put a trachea cover on Mark. He was immediately able to speak. In true Mark fashion he never skipped a beat. He almost immediately said "Happy Birthday Dad". No one had to tell him it was his Dad's birthday he read the date on the wall board and it clicked. What a birthday gift for his father.
We have been so blessed. As we listened to the Count your many blessings song last night Mark said he must have had 3 billion blessings. I simply agreed.
The doctor has ordered a swallow test. Passing that would allow him to eat solid foods and possibly transfer out of ICU by tomorrow. Mark wants to come home or atleast be transfer to Cape or Sikeston.
We are blessed to have the knowledge of the power of God.
Love,
Stephanie
We have been so blessed. As we listened to the Count your many blessings song last night Mark said he must have had 3 billion blessings. I simply agreed.
The doctor has ordered a swallow test. Passing that would allow him to eat solid foods and possibly transfer out of ICU by tomorrow. Mark wants to come home or atleast be transfer to Cape or Sikeston.
We are blessed to have the knowledge of the power of God.
Love,
Stephanie
Early morning update
This is the first night Mark has been completely off any type of support. He is breathing well and we are all impressed with how strong he is. He is looking great and was very alert most all day. He tried to write and use the computer to communicate this afternoon. We had the best luck with lip reading but it's hard for him to slow down his words.
I am staying with him tonight because he seemed a bit confused. Mark's parents went to the Bedell apartment and I will go rest when they return in the morning. He is not sleeping well but who does in the hospital environment.
Will update again tomorrow.
Love,
Stephanie
I am staying with him tonight because he seemed a bit confused. Mark's parents went to the Bedell apartment and I will go rest when they return in the morning. He is not sleeping well but who does in the hospital environment.
Will update again tomorrow.
Love,
Stephanie
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Tuesday, October 30th
With a small dose of Ambein Mark managed to get a little sleep last night. He struggled with quite a bit of nausea. But was looking great this morning. The hospital staff has began telling us how good looking he is....duh! The nurse reported when she told him she would see him tonight we mouthed no he wouldn't be here. He said he was ready to go golfing.
Dr. Meyer and his staff said they are very pleased with his progress, but we must be patient and realize it is going to take time. He was able to sit on the side of the bed and then with some assistance be transferred to a recliner for a few hours. The occupational therapist gave him an A+ she could not believe the improvements compared to last week.
Mark's parents seem to be holding up like champions. I am very glad they are here for me and Mark. I enjoyed an evening at home with Clayson. He woke up asking for his Daddy. He asked Amy Alcorn his stand in Mom why we couldn't strap his hospital bed to the back of the car and pull him home. As you all know he is a "chip off the old block". Mark may be thinking the same thing.
I know it's hard for him to listen to everyone telling him what he has to do. Please pray for him to have the patience he is going to need to recover.
My heart goes out to all of you who continue to pray for Mark and follow his progress.
Love,
Stephanie
Dr. Meyer and his staff said they are very pleased with his progress, but we must be patient and realize it is going to take time. He was able to sit on the side of the bed and then with some assistance be transferred to a recliner for a few hours. The occupational therapist gave him an A+ she could not believe the improvements compared to last week.
Mark's parents seem to be holding up like champions. I am very glad they are here for me and Mark. I enjoyed an evening at home with Clayson. He woke up asking for his Daddy. He asked Amy Alcorn his stand in Mom why we couldn't strap his hospital bed to the back of the car and pull him home. As you all know he is a "chip off the old block". Mark may be thinking the same thing.
I know it's hard for him to listen to everyone telling him what he has to do. Please pray for him to have the patience he is going to need to recover.
My heart goes out to all of you who continue to pray for Mark and follow his progress.
Love,
Stephanie
Monday, October 29, 2007
Monday Morning
After such a great day I had high hopes for a restful evening, but Mark did not get much rest. They had his oxygen on throughout the night and when I walked in this morning and I could hear him trying to talk. I asked him if he could talk and he said isn't that what I'm suppose to be doing? When the respiratory therapist came in he said Mark could not talk with out support yet. He isn't strong enough to move enough air to produce sound on his own.
He will have several more days in ICU. I have been pressing the doctors to be as aggressive as possible. I would consider moving him to Cape when they release him from ICU, but I am unsure of the level of care we are receiving here verses Southeast in Cape. They are not very aggressive with physical therapy compared to what they were doing in Canada.
I am planning to go home this afternoon and spend the evening at home with Clayson. Mark's parents have agreed to continue to stay with Mark. Larry Eby and Darrin Johnson may be visiting late this afternoon.
Slowly but surely the real Mark Anerson is coming back. We are having in there.
Love,
Stephanie
He will have several more days in ICU. I have been pressing the doctors to be as aggressive as possible. I would consider moving him to Cape when they release him from ICU, but I am unsure of the level of care we are receiving here verses Southeast in Cape. They are not very aggressive with physical therapy compared to what they were doing in Canada.
I am planning to go home this afternoon and spend the evening at home with Clayson. Mark's parents have agreed to continue to stay with Mark. Larry Eby and Darrin Johnson may be visiting late this afternoon.
Slowly but surely the real Mark Anerson is coming back. We are having in there.
Love,
Stephanie
Sunday, October 28, 2007
Sunday Fun Day!
Wow, we have had an incredible day. Mark is beginning to show many signs of improvement. He kissed me!!! I mean it, he puckered up his lips and looked into my eyes and kissed me. I was so awesome it made my foot pop off the floor. We are so blessed. He is turning the corner.
My concern is that in true Mark Anderson form he is now devising a plan to escape. Sarah has advised me to take the car keys and hide the cash. I think getting to see Justin and Steven was very therapeutic and while they were here he mouthed, "I'm going to be O.K.". I know it's not a coincidence that this wonderful day is Sunday. Prayer is bringing him through.
Love,
Stephanie
My concern is that in true Mark Anderson form he is now devising a plan to escape. Sarah has advised me to take the car keys and hide the cash. I think getting to see Justin and Steven was very therapeutic and while they were here he mouthed, "I'm going to be O.K.". I know it's not a coincidence that this wonderful day is Sunday. Prayer is bringing him through.
Love,
Stephanie
Sunday Afternoon
Mark is having a great day! He got to see his boys today and sat in a chair for three hours. He's also responding to a lot more commands and it seems like his eyes are focusing better. They're hoping to be able to put a vent on his trach which should allow him to speak. Overall, the doctors gave him an A+ for today! When Stephanie asked him if he was an Aggie, he nodded yes!
Thanks for your prayers! We are so blessed!
Mark's Family
Thanks for your prayers! We are so blessed!
Mark's Family
He Did It!!!
Mark is finally breathing on his own!!! I'm am overflowing with joy. He is making such great progress today. I am unsure how long they will let him breath without assistance but for the moment he is my hero. After days and days of asking him to hold up two fingers he finally DID IT!!!
They changed his insulin from humalog is lantus which is a more long acting insulin. He is on a beta blocker to control his blood pressure. He body seems to be functioning much more independently now. He is trying to get up and out of bed.
Marjean just walked out and said his blood pressure is rising and they had to give him some haldol to relieve his anxiety. I better make a run for it.
Love,
Stephanie
They changed his insulin from humalog is lantus which is a more long acting insulin. He is on a beta blocker to control his blood pressure. He body seems to be functioning much more independently now. He is trying to get up and out of bed.
Marjean just walked out and said his blood pressure is rising and they had to give him some haldol to relieve his anxiety. I better make a run for it.
Love,
Stephanie
Sunday Morning
Happy to report Mark is looking so much better this morning. We left him late last night in the hands of a nurse named Amanda. She has cared for him for three nights and is getting quite comfortable with his tricks. You can tell he likes the nurses and is trying to follow their commands. She did not have to increase his sedation through the night although he did experience a low grade fever. Mark is becoming very expressive he has us laughing at his silly faces.
The plan for today is to allow him to try to sit up a little and wean his oxygen. Will do my best to update throughout the day. I want you all to know you guys are getting us through this the support of friends and family continues to be overwhelming. Thank you all for the comfort we are able to feel. Let's pray for him to more consistently follow commands and complete recovery.
Love,
Stephanie
The plan for today is to allow him to try to sit up a little and wean his oxygen. Will do my best to update throughout the day. I want you all to know you guys are getting us through this the support of friends and family continues to be overwhelming. Thank you all for the comfort we are able to feel. Let's pray for him to more consistently follow commands and complete recovery.
Love,
Stephanie
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Saturday Night News
No excitement going on around here. I was disappointed that they gave Mark a dose of Haldol (a sedative) while we were out of the room so they could reposition him. It completely put him to sleep. He is still not as responsive as we would like. Then nurse Amanda just came in and decreased his pain medicine so there is a slight chance we may get a little action out of him.
His parents are glued to the Texas A&M game and he doesn't even know it's going on. It is so not Mark. I'm ready for him to wake up and cheer on the Aggies. He is looking better and does not appear to be in much pain. The plan is to try and wean him off the oxygen support tomorrow.
I am praying for a great Sunday. Justin and Steven are planning to come for a short visit, but the doctor's say family only and no more than two people in the room at a time.
Thanks for taking the time to stay up to date and send those prayers up to the Man above.
Love,
Stephanie
His parents are glued to the Texas A&M game and he doesn't even know it's going on. It is so not Mark. I'm ready for him to wake up and cheer on the Aggies. He is looking better and does not appear to be in much pain. The plan is to try and wean him off the oxygen support tomorrow.
I am praying for a great Sunday. Justin and Steven are planning to come for a short visit, but the doctor's say family only and no more than two people in the room at a time.
Thanks for taking the time to stay up to date and send those prayers up to the Man above.
Love,
Stephanie
Saturday Noon
The doctors would like Mark to wake up today so they have reduced his sedation by about 1/2 the amount. He is exercising on his own...pulling his knees up and moving his arms. His eyes are opening wider and appear as thought he is trying to focus. He is breathing mostly on his own which is a big improvement. We are very pleased with his progress and are hopeful for a productive day. He is beginning to cough and we are glad to see there is some facial expressions of pain. We are sure all the broken ribs are very painful.
Melanie Glaus & David Duncan brought me to the hospital area dropping Clayson back off at the Alcorn's (also known as Clayson's disneyworld). So I am feeling refreshed and relieved that Clayson has a better understanding of the situation. Mark's parents are still here with us and seem to be handeling the stress beautifully. Thank you all for everything.
Love,
Stephanie and Warren
Melanie Glaus & David Duncan brought me to the hospital area dropping Clayson back off at the Alcorn's (also known as Clayson's disneyworld). So I am feeling refreshed and relieved that Clayson has a better understanding of the situation. Mark's parents are still here with us and seem to be handeling the stress beautifully. Thank you all for everything.
Love,
Stephanie and Warren
Friday, October 26, 2007
Crystal Rain
Mark's parents just reported he is resting well and looking better than before they removed the ventilator but still not up to having visitors. Thank you for being patient. Keep those prayer chains in motion.
My friend Salwa wrote, "Through black clouds falls crystal rain." I think she is right...don't you?
Love, Stephanie & Clayson
My friend Salwa wrote, "Through black clouds falls crystal rain." I think she is right...don't you?
Love, Stephanie & Clayson
Stephanie,
Just found out a couple days ago about Mark's accident. Please know that you are all in our prayers! Mark was always so kind to me when I worked for him. Even after I quit, when my Mark's shop burnt, Mark was one of the first ones to offer help of any kind. Now it's our turn to offer you all the same. If you need ANYTHING (but from reading the blog I'd say your friends have it covered) but if you do. Please let me know!
Keep your chin up. You're doing amazing! Such a pillar! I will continue to check the blog to see how things are going! Take care and God Bless you all.
Lee Ann & Mark Miller
"Nobody gets in to see the wizard...not nobody...not no how!"
Just found out a couple days ago about Mark's accident. Please know that you are all in our prayers! Mark was always so kind to me when I worked for him. Even after I quit, when my Mark's shop burnt, Mark was one of the first ones to offer help of any kind. Now it's our turn to offer you all the same. If you need ANYTHING (but from reading the blog I'd say your friends have it covered) but if you do. Please let me know!
Keep your chin up. You're doing amazing! Such a pillar! I will continue to check the blog to see how things are going! Take care and God Bless you all.
Lee Ann & Mark Miller
"Nobody gets in to see the wizard...not nobody...not no how!"
Stephanie & Mark
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> I'm glad to hear things are going well. Steph I'm worried about you
> (are
you getting enough sleep and food) all the things you are going to need to keep up with fighting Mark. "ha ha" I know you have Larry and Anita with you right now but a any point that someone is not with you just call and I can come up about anytime. I have plenty of people that want to keep Dallin aka Ricky Bobby.
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> Just letting you know that Mark, you and the family are in everyone of
> my
personal prayers and our family prayers. Bug ask every day how is Mr. Mark and where is Clayson. Mark and you are very special to our family. Hope to see you soon.
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> Lots of Love and hugs
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> Jamie C.
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> I'm glad to hear things are going well. Steph I'm worried about you
> (are
you getting enough sleep and food) all the things you are going to need to keep up with fighting Mark. "ha ha" I know you have Larry and Anita with you right now but a any point that someone is not with you just call and I can come up about anytime. I have plenty of people that want to keep Dallin aka Ricky Bobby.
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> Just letting you know that Mark, you and the family are in everyone of
> my
personal prayers and our family prayers. Bug ask every day how is Mr. Mark and where is Clayson. Mark and you are very special to our family. Hope to see you soon.
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> Lots of Love and hugs
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> Jamie C.
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Stephanie!!
That was so wonderful to be with both of you! I feel so privilleged! Stephanie, when i saw Matt and Patty this morning and they told me the good news, i couldn't hardly think straight, i was pushing wrong buttons on the elevator and going wrong directions because i was so stinking excited i couldn't even function. by the time i got up to you guys in the room, (which i didn't know if i was allowed to come into unannounced, but didn't care!) I felt like Tigger! i was so on cloud 9 no one could of stopped me from barging in there with my oatmeal! ha ha. I just had to squeeze all of you one more time before saying good bye and that news just made my heart sing. He is here, of course he is here!! I couldn't sleep all night Stephanie thinking and thinking and thinking about Mark, and after that excellent news, i couldn't believe the tears of excitement that came flowing as i left that room this morning. What a beautiful experience it was for me to be with all of you. Stephanie, it is going to be o.k., the miracles are going to bring him through this! You are beautiful and i love you, thank you for letting me share those precious moments with you and Mark, and sweet Sarah (oh by the way, now i know she reminds me of Sarah the dutchess of York!) she just needs a nice thick British accent. I loved finally being with you again Stephanie, it felt so good! Please remember to show me a picture of Sunny next time, i really wanted to see that.)
(p.s. we had a friend come into town from Minneapolis tonight, he leaves early in the morning and Paul is back up to st.louis again for the week.)
love yah,
salwa
That was so wonderful to be with both of you! I feel so privilleged! Stephanie, when i saw Matt and Patty this morning and they told me the good news, i couldn't hardly think straight, i was pushing wrong buttons on the elevator and going wrong directions because i was so stinking excited i couldn't even function. by the time i got up to you guys in the room, (which i didn't know if i was allowed to come into unannounced, but didn't care!) I felt like Tigger! i was so on cloud 9 no one could of stopped me from barging in there with my oatmeal! ha ha. I just had to squeeze all of you one more time before saying good bye and that news just made my heart sing. He is here, of course he is here!! I couldn't sleep all night Stephanie thinking and thinking and thinking about Mark, and after that excellent news, i couldn't believe the tears of excitement that came flowing as i left that room this morning. What a beautiful experience it was for me to be with all of you. Stephanie, it is going to be o.k., the miracles are going to bring him through this! You are beautiful and i love you, thank you for letting me share those precious moments with you and Mark, and sweet Sarah (oh by the way, now i know she reminds me of Sarah the dutchess of York!) she just needs a nice thick British accent. I loved finally being with you again Stephanie, it felt so good! Please remember to show me a picture of Sunny next time, i really wanted to see that.)
(p.s. we had a friend come into town from Minneapolis tonight, he leaves early in the morning and Paul is back up to st.louis again for the week.)
love yah,
salwa
The Power of Prayer
The surgeon from St. John's just informed me the tracheotomy was a SUCCESS! His words were it went lickity split no problems to reports. Dr. Myer's was able to suction Mark's lungs and they are hopeful for a full recovery.
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I am overflowing with joy!!!
All my love,
Stephanie
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I am overflowing with joy!!!
All my love,
Stephanie
We are hanging in there
I received news that Mark had a restful night and opened his eyes for his parents this morning. They are in the process of performing the tracheotomy now. His parents are in the waiting room.
I am home with Clayson. We had a great reunion last night and he wrapped his self around me this morning and said no TV, no toys, no school, his stomach hurts and he wants to watch the "Momma show". Mark's nurse, his parents and Darrin Johnson assured me they will not try to wake him until Saturday morning so I should spend a little time at home verses the waiting room.
Everyone has been so great at taking care of our every need. We had a kitchen full of food here when we arrived, Stephanie and Sarah brought me clean clothes, Rich and Kathy Pelczynski brought Clayson a gift bag full of fun things last night, David Glaus took care of our cell phone bill, the Engram's (our neighbors) have offered assistance, etc....the blessings are flowing.
P.S. Clayson is aware his Dad is in the hospital, has several broken ribs and is not feeling well. I still feel it is in his best interest to shelter him from the details of this tragedy.
I will do my best to stay in touch throughout the day.
Love, Stephanie
I am home with Clayson. We had a great reunion last night and he wrapped his self around me this morning and said no TV, no toys, no school, his stomach hurts and he wants to watch the "Momma show". Mark's nurse, his parents and Darrin Johnson assured me they will not try to wake him until Saturday morning so I should spend a little time at home verses the waiting room.
Everyone has been so great at taking care of our every need. We had a kitchen full of food here when we arrived, Stephanie and Sarah brought me clean clothes, Rich and Kathy Pelczynski brought Clayson a gift bag full of fun things last night, David Glaus took care of our cell phone bill, the Engram's (our neighbors) have offered assistance, etc....the blessings are flowing.
P.S. Clayson is aware his Dad is in the hospital, has several broken ribs and is not feeling well. I still feel it is in his best interest to shelter him from the details of this tragedy.
I will do my best to stay in touch throughout the day.
Love, Stephanie
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Not much news to report in Mark's activity today he continued to rest comfortably and his blood pressure remained stable.
It has been decided it is in Mark's best interest to have a tracheotomy preformed. This should allow him to awake in a more calm state verses waking with the ventilator. His swelling is down so he is looking better and we are feeling more comfortable with the care he is receiving at St. John's.
Mark's parents arrived this afternoon which allowed me peace of mind to make a short trip home. Sarah dashed to St. Louis and brought me home to see Clayson. Melanie Glaus or Stephanie Gleason will be taking me back in the morning. Looking forward to some snuggle time with my sweet little boy.
We are so blessed. I love and pray for you all.
Love, Stephanie and Clayson
It has been decided it is in Mark's best interest to have a tracheotomy preformed. This should allow him to awake in a more calm state verses waking with the ventilator. His swelling is down so he is looking better and we are feeling more comfortable with the care he is receiving at St. John's.
Mark's parents arrived this afternoon which allowed me peace of mind to make a short trip home. Sarah dashed to St. Louis and brought me home to see Clayson. Melanie Glaus or Stephanie Gleason will be taking me back in the morning. Looking forward to some snuggle time with my sweet little boy.
We are so blessed. I love and pray for you all.
Love, Stephanie and Clayson
Doctor's came by but Mark was resting so well they did not want to distrub him. He does have a low grade fever making them think there may still be some infection in his lungs. Kelly is his nurse for the day and she wanted to try to incubate but the doctor needs more assurance that he is going to be able to respond and protect his airways. They are considering the option of putting a temporary trach in if he continues to struggle with the ventilator. They just took blood cultures from two different sites to try to determine what and where the infection may be. He was on a beta blocker and ace inhibitor to lowest his blood pressure but Kelly just stopped the ace inhibitor and he seems to be under control. The are going to decrease the (versate?) sedative and see how he responds in a few minutes. Hang tight and keep up the prayers.
Mark's parents should be here soon and I may come home for a few hours tonight. Andy and Tina Piepenbrock stopped by to visit with me for a few minutes. Andy said a prayer with Mark. For anyone who doesn't know please keep Andy's mother in your prayers she is battling breast cancer and they are on their way to Rodchester now. There are angels all around us. Thank you.
Love,
Stephanie and Mark
Mark's parents should be here soon and I may come home for a few hours tonight. Andy and Tina Piepenbrock stopped by to visit with me for a few minutes. Andy said a prayer with Mark. For anyone who doesn't know please keep Andy's mother in your prayers she is battling breast cancer and they are on their way to Rodchester now. There are angels all around us. Thank you.
Love,
Stephanie and Mark
It is amazing how many people are praying for Mark and his family. I know just on my end that it is 100s of people. I hope somewhere inside Mark is feeling all of heaven's blessing pouring down on him and I hope you are feeling the same. I get emails all day with people asking about his progress.
Take care and keep us posted.
Christina L.Anderson
Take care and keep us posted.
Christina L.Anderson
Thursday morning update
Mark had an eventful night. There was a heated wrestling match which occurred last night in ICU room 474. Mark, Larry and Nurse Hilda all seemed to be holding there own until Larry got the boot to the waiting room, Nurse Hilda took Mark down with a powerful dose of night night juice and claimed victory enjoying the funky chunky chocolate covered pretzels Anita and Sarah brought to bribe the staff. Mark continued to show his strength and escaped from his restraints. They put, what I think look like boxing gloves on each hand. They battled with his blood pressure and respirations through much of the night. All caused by his agitation. Hilda is gone, Larry is back and Mark is in dreamland. All is well. Anxiously awaiting another miracle today.
Love,
Stephanie & Anita
Love,
Stephanie & Anita
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Almost over the Hump day (Wed)
Mark has remained fairly stable throughout the day. He still seems to have his days and nights confused. He rested most all morning and began to come to life mid afternoon. As Stephanie G. was leaving and Anita Eby stepped in he began to work harder than ever to wake up and show us what he could do. His blood pressure became elevated and the nurse had to bump up his sedative. Then he bounced back and forth between states of restfulness and activity.
One of his surgeons visited and complimented the incredibly good job Dr. McCarval (the Canadian surgeon) did. The doctors would like to see more consistent responses but are still hopeful that will come.
Please pray he will have a restful evening and be able to have the ventilator removed tomorrow.
Mark's parents will be coming up after they take Clayson to school in the morning and I am going to try to run home for the night and return Friday morning. Thank you all the the cards, emails, voicemails, flowers, food and most importantly prayers.
Love you,
Stephanie
One of his surgeons visited and complimented the incredibly good job Dr. McCarval (the Canadian surgeon) did. The doctors would like to see more consistent responses but are still hopeful that will come.
Please pray he will have a restful evening and be able to have the ventilator removed tomorrow.
Mark's parents will be coming up after they take Clayson to school in the morning and I am going to try to run home for the night and return Friday morning. Thank you all the the cards, emails, voicemails, flowers, food and most importantly prayers.
Love you,
Stephanie
Hello Stephanie and Mark:
Glad to hear that Mark is starting to show signs of healing. We check the website first thing every morning and last thing at night.
Glad to also hear that you, Stephanie, are finally getting some well deserved rest. It has been fascinating, reading the website everyday and keeping right up with what is going on. Wish we could be there with you. Good job Sarah and Stephanie.
I also think that it is really nice that people are taking time out to stop in and say hello and let you know that you are in their prayers. Perhaps if I may be so bold as to say, that I think you need a night or two to go home and hug Clayson. I am hoping that someone out there will be able to stay with Mark while you do so. It may be what us "Canadian Doctors" would prescribe.
Wish we could be there. Please know that we are keeping you both in our thoughts every day and that we tune in anxiously waiting for the day when we hear that Mark is awake and well again.
Our thoughts and prayers for you both,
Your friends from the North,
Brenda & Wally
Glad to hear that Mark is starting to show signs of healing. We check the website first thing every morning and last thing at night.
Glad to also hear that you, Stephanie, are finally getting some well deserved rest. It has been fascinating, reading the website everyday and keeping right up with what is going on. Wish we could be there with you. Good job Sarah and Stephanie.
I also think that it is really nice that people are taking time out to stop in and say hello and let you know that you are in their prayers. Perhaps if I may be so bold as to say, that I think you need a night or two to go home and hug Clayson. I am hoping that someone out there will be able to stay with Mark while you do so. It may be what us "Canadian Doctors" would prescribe.
Wish we could be there. Please know that we are keeping you both in our thoughts every day and that we tune in anxiously waiting for the day when we hear that Mark is awake and well again.
Our thoughts and prayers for you both,
Your friends from the North,
Brenda & Wally
Hey Mark and Stephanie! I just wanted to let you both know that Kevin and I are thinking about both of you and praying that you will be back to yourself asap. Stephanie, there is a package floating around Canada somewhere for you. I told Jackee and she said that she would take care of it. All of us here at NewWave will continue to pray and keep things moving as smoothly as possible so tell Mark not to worry.........it is all under control. If we can help with anything, please let us know and God Bless both of you!!
Thank you,
Kristi Goetz
Thank you,
Kristi Goetz
Hello out there. We are still here at St. John's in St. Louis. Yesterday morning was a morning of progress for Mark. Mark responded to questions by nodding his head and responded to the command of squeezing a hand. It was cause for great joy and celebration. The doctors came in and said the day continued to be a focus of finding the appropriate medicine to keep Mark calm yet more responsive to command. This is necessary in order for them to pull the ventilator. We are finding as the days go by that Mark's pattern is to make these baby steps of improvement in the morning and the rest of the day is a holding pattern. On the one hand, the baby steps are always joyous and we are so thankful for any progress, yet on the other hand, the day then becomes a bit long as we are so anxious for the next step.
Yesterday afternoon one of the doctors came in and explained to us that it is very common for someone who has been in ICU for any length of time to develop what he called a "hysterical dilerium". What this means is that Mark has been so medicated for so long and his body is becoming used to those meds and it causes him to lose touch with the concept of time and any orientation to where he is and what is going on. As he is weaned off the sedatives and placed on a more mild medicine, this should slowly go away.
Stephanie continues to do better than you could ever imagine. Yesterday afternoon was a long day for her and she is very exhausted, both mentally or physically. It is so important to her that everyone continue with their prayers. It is still not a good idea for Mark to have many visitors. While making wonderful progress, he is still critical and it is best that he have this quiet time to heal. We had a visitor yesterday, George Rand came by while in St. Louis. Stephanie made the comment that it was so nice for HER to have a visitor and there was no level of expectation to go back to see Mark. So anyone who would like to come up and visit with Stephanie for a little bit, she said that was a wonderful diversion for her yesterday.
Stephanie called Ted Lewis yesterday to come up and spend the night with Mark. One of the hardest things for Stephanie to do is to leave Mark at night as his pattern has become that that is the hardest part of the day for him. While we stay until 10 or 11 or so, Stephanie has got to leave to get some sleep. Having Ted with Mark as we left last night gave her a great sense of peace and comfort. Ted shared with us this a.m. that Mark did indeed have a very active night and his sweet little nurse also said this a.m. that Mark kept her very busy. Stephanie is thankful for Ted and his coming to spend the night
We have not seen the doctors yet this a.m. We are anxious to hear from them today as they have monitored his level of responsiveness. That will dictate how today goes. Stephanie, at this time, cannot think beyond the next few hours as to what her schedule will be. I have to reiterate what my sister posted the other day. Being a third party in the room with Stephanie and Mark and watching the amount of love, compassion and care Stephanie has for and with Mark is one of the most beautiful things I have ever witnessed. She is hovering over him and is taking such good care. She is keeping his lips moist, his hands and feets lotioned and massaged and keeps up a running commentary to him at all times. We joke that if she was a momma babboon, her baby would have no bugs as she is constantly picking, stroking or just holding his hand. It is a priviledge to experience Mark and Stephanie together.
Mark's folks have made it to Sikeston which also comforts Stephanie. She is excited for Clayson to be home with them and to know that Clayson can be in his own home with all of his animals for a few days.
Stephanie remains positive and focused on all of their blessings. Please, if you are in St. Louis come by and see her. We are looking foward to a positive day. I have to go home but Anita Eby is coming and will stay today, tonight and tomorrow morning with Stephane. The apartment we are staying in is wonderful and convenient to the hospital. We leave so late at night that Stephanie should never head there alone.We will let everyone know what today brings and just again ask that you keep Mark and Stephanie in your thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie G. and Stephanie A ( Or Stephanie 1 and 2 as we have been called)
Yesterday afternoon one of the doctors came in and explained to us that it is very common for someone who has been in ICU for any length of time to develop what he called a "hysterical dilerium". What this means is that Mark has been so medicated for so long and his body is becoming used to those meds and it causes him to lose touch with the concept of time and any orientation to where he is and what is going on. As he is weaned off the sedatives and placed on a more mild medicine, this should slowly go away.
Stephanie continues to do better than you could ever imagine. Yesterday afternoon was a long day for her and she is very exhausted, both mentally or physically. It is so important to her that everyone continue with their prayers. It is still not a good idea for Mark to have many visitors. While making wonderful progress, he is still critical and it is best that he have this quiet time to heal. We had a visitor yesterday, George Rand came by while in St. Louis. Stephanie made the comment that it was so nice for HER to have a visitor and there was no level of expectation to go back to see Mark. So anyone who would like to come up and visit with Stephanie for a little bit, she said that was a wonderful diversion for her yesterday.
Stephanie called Ted Lewis yesterday to come up and spend the night with Mark. One of the hardest things for Stephanie to do is to leave Mark at night as his pattern has become that that is the hardest part of the day for him. While we stay until 10 or 11 or so, Stephanie has got to leave to get some sleep. Having Ted with Mark as we left last night gave her a great sense of peace and comfort. Ted shared with us this a.m. that Mark did indeed have a very active night and his sweet little nurse also said this a.m. that Mark kept her very busy. Stephanie is thankful for Ted and his coming to spend the night
We have not seen the doctors yet this a.m. We are anxious to hear from them today as they have monitored his level of responsiveness. That will dictate how today goes. Stephanie, at this time, cannot think beyond the next few hours as to what her schedule will be. I have to reiterate what my sister posted the other day. Being a third party in the room with Stephanie and Mark and watching the amount of love, compassion and care Stephanie has for and with Mark is one of the most beautiful things I have ever witnessed. She is hovering over him and is taking such good care. She is keeping his lips moist, his hands and feets lotioned and massaged and keeps up a running commentary to him at all times. We joke that if she was a momma babboon, her baby would have no bugs as she is constantly picking, stroking or just holding his hand. It is a priviledge to experience Mark and Stephanie together.
Mark's folks have made it to Sikeston which also comforts Stephanie. She is excited for Clayson to be home with them and to know that Clayson can be in his own home with all of his animals for a few days.
Stephanie remains positive and focused on all of their blessings. Please, if you are in St. Louis come by and see her. We are looking foward to a positive day. I have to go home but Anita Eby is coming and will stay today, tonight and tomorrow morning with Stephane. The apartment we are staying in is wonderful and convenient to the hospital. We leave so late at night that Stephanie should never head there alone.We will let everyone know what today brings and just again ask that you keep Mark and Stephanie in your thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie G. and Stephanie A ( Or Stephanie 1 and 2 as we have been called)
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
October 23, 2007 12:00PM
Here is an update from a recent phone call from Stephanie:
Mark had a rough night last night but overrall things are going very well. Yesterday the doctors performed a Cat scan and reported a "perfectly normal" brain. Since he IS Mark Anderson, we didn't know how that could be true! But it was great news anyway. The doctor asked Mark a question and Mark responded with a nod so that was a very good sign. The next hurdle will be getting him awake enough to let him get off the breathing equipment. We're taking that nice and slow to keep him from violently pulling everything out.
One funny thing is that Mark had to get a new bed today because his other one was way too small. According to Stephanie, he looked all squished up in it and the staff kept asking how tall he is.
Thank you for keeping those prayers and well wishes coming!
-Mark's Family
Mark had a rough night last night but overrall things are going very well. Yesterday the doctors performed a Cat scan and reported a "perfectly normal" brain. Since he IS Mark Anderson, we didn't know how that could be true! But it was great news anyway. The doctor asked Mark a question and Mark responded with a nod so that was a very good sign. The next hurdle will be getting him awake enough to let him get off the breathing equipment. We're taking that nice and slow to keep him from violently pulling everything out.
One funny thing is that Mark had to get a new bed today because his other one was way too small. According to Stephanie, he looked all squished up in it and the staff kept asking how tall he is.
Thank you for keeping those prayers and well wishes coming!
-Mark's Family
Stephanie,
I am beside myself w/ joy!! I am shocked the pneumonia is almost gone. Things are progressing very well it seems. Keep your head up girl cause everyone else has theirs down praying for both of you!
Nickie
I wanted to send you my favorite prayer: Psalm 23...
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness for His name's sake. Yes, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; my cup runs over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
I am beside myself w/ joy!! I am shocked the pneumonia is almost gone. Things are progressing very well it seems. Keep your head up girl cause everyone else has theirs down praying for both of you!
Nickie
I wanted to send you my favorite prayer: Psalm 23...
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness for His name's sake. Yes, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; my cup runs over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
Mark,
Julie Millington emailed me about your accident and I've been keeping up with the blog messages your family has been posting. I can tell from the messages you are surrounded by lots of love and support.
I just wanted you to know I continue to pray for you and your family. I pray the Lord blesses you with a full and speedy recovery!
God bless.
Sharon McCombs
Business Account Executive
Comcast Cable
Julie Millington emailed me about your accident and I've been keeping up with the blog messages your family has been posting. I can tell from the messages you are surrounded by lots of love and support.
I just wanted you to know I continue to pray for you and your family. I pray the Lord blesses you with a full and speedy recovery!
God bless.
Sharon McCombs
Business Account Executive
Comcast Cable
Stephanie,
Hello!! Brian and I are so glad you were able to transfer Mark back to the states. I know having him closer to home is one less worry for you. We have both been remembering you, Mark and your families in our prayers. By now, I am sure that you know this is a long road....but keep the faith, roll with the punches, and remember that to win the war, you must first win the battles. We will continue to remember all of you in our prayers and wish Mark the speediest of recoveries. If there is anything AT ALL that you need, just let us know.
Take care and God Bless,
Brian and Leigh Anna Manley
Hello!! Brian and I are so glad you were able to transfer Mark back to the states. I know having him closer to home is one less worry for you. We have both been remembering you, Mark and your families in our prayers. By now, I am sure that you know this is a long road....but keep the faith, roll with the punches, and remember that to win the war, you must first win the battles. We will continue to remember all of you in our prayers and wish Mark the speediest of recoveries. If there is anything AT ALL that you need, just let us know.
Take care and God Bless,
Brian and Leigh Anna Manley
Stephanie--
I don't know if this the email will reach you. From the blog, it is very evident that Mark is the fighter that we all know that he is! We are so pleased that things are improving. What I am learning is how much of a fighter you are as well! You are truly amazing and an example of what we all need to be for those we love. There are prayers and offers in abundance. But, if there is a single thing or dozens of things that cross your mind -- Rod and I will be glad to help. We keep praying for you all and Clayson has been on my mind so much. But, from the reponses that you have from friends and family, it is clear that he is being treated as wonderfully as he deserves. It is so apparent that your family is indeed special; the outpouring of support warms my heart.
We have put you and Mark out to our prayer chain and there are many of our friends praying for him across Georgia and Mississippi---and quite of few of those have hunted with him. I get emails asking for updates daily. There are many times in life that we see the power of prayer and I can sense it with you all. In fact, even early after hearing about the accident, I had a sense of peace. Much of it I believe had to do with the faith I know you all have and the strength of character you all show.
Later this week, I will try and send a little "love from Georgia" package. If you would like some special treat, entertainment, etc...let me know and I will include it. One thing I have is a cute video of the turkey hunt Rod and Mark went on last year. Rod put it together and never sent it out to the guys. It is quite funny and I believe it would make you smile!
Just add us to the list of those you know are praying and thinking of you guys....
Love, Sadie,
Rod and Barry Kate
I don't know if this the email will reach you. From the blog, it is very evident that Mark is the fighter that we all know that he is! We are so pleased that things are improving. What I am learning is how much of a fighter you are as well! You are truly amazing and an example of what we all need to be for those we love. There are prayers and offers in abundance. But, if there is a single thing or dozens of things that cross your mind -- Rod and I will be glad to help. We keep praying for you all and Clayson has been on my mind so much. But, from the reponses that you have from friends and family, it is clear that he is being treated as wonderfully as he deserves. It is so apparent that your family is indeed special; the outpouring of support warms my heart.
We have put you and Mark out to our prayer chain and there are many of our friends praying for him across Georgia and Mississippi---and quite of few of those have hunted with him. I get emails asking for updates daily. There are many times in life that we see the power of prayer and I can sense it with you all. In fact, even early after hearing about the accident, I had a sense of peace. Much of it I believe had to do with the faith I know you all have and the strength of character you all show.
Later this week, I will try and send a little "love from Georgia" package. If you would like some special treat, entertainment, etc...let me know and I will include it. One thing I have is a cute video of the turkey hunt Rod and Mark went on last year. Rod put it together and never sent it out to the guys. It is quite funny and I believe it would make you smile!
Just add us to the list of those you know are praying and thinking of you guys....
Love, Sadie,
Rod and Barry Kate
From Christina Anderson:
Stephanie,
Andrew and Peri Speckhard are some of my dearest and best friends from the A&M days and I have made sure to keep them posted on Mark and his progress. Andrew asked that I copy and paste this for Mark to read.
I have several comments from others and when I have time to copy and paste them into once document I will get that together for Mark to have later.
We are grateful to hear about the progress Mark is making. He continues to be in our prayers. I've thought a lot lately of all the good times we had so many years ago. I remember going with Mark to brand some cattle and he told me to take my hand and hold the cow between her nostrils?? I remember roofing the apartment buildings, I remember all those midnight yells, I remember road tripping to a lot of football games. Tell Mark I'm counting on him getting well and that we love him!
Andrew Speckhard
Territory Manager, General Aviation
Caribbean and Latin America
Stephanie,
Andrew and Peri Speckhard are some of my dearest and best friends from the A&M days and I have made sure to keep them posted on Mark and his progress. Andrew asked that I copy and paste this for Mark to read.
I have several comments from others and when I have time to copy and paste them into once document I will get that together for Mark to have later.
We are grateful to hear about the progress Mark is making. He continues to be in our prayers. I've thought a lot lately of all the good times we had so many years ago. I remember going with Mark to brand some cattle and he told me to take my hand and hold the cow between her nostrils?? I remember roofing the apartment buildings, I remember all those midnight yells, I remember road tripping to a lot of football games. Tell Mark I'm counting on him getting well and that we love him!
Andrew Speckhard
Territory Manager, General Aviation
Caribbean and Latin America
Hello Steph!!! I just got the website to your blog so now I can keep up with what is happening. I have had continous prayers for your entire family since I found out about the accident! I have also shared Mark's story with my Bible study group at Church and we have been praying for him as a group every Monday night when we meet as well. I look forward to any new Blog you post ecspecially if it such wonderful news as the last one! Tell Mark he HAS to get better because my email sure has been boring without his funny jokes! I, along with my church will continue to pray for strength and guidance for your family and for Mark.
Much love,
Leslie
Much love,
Leslie
Stephanie-
It was great to read the about Mark's progress this morning and so glad to know you are back in the USA!! St. John's is a terrific hosptial - that is where I had David and Kathleen and I think they are miracle workers. Keep the good news coming and we will keep delivering the prayers.
Beth
It was great to read the about Mark's progress this morning and so glad to know you are back in the USA!! St. John's is a terrific hosptial - that is where I had David and Kathleen and I think they are miracle workers. Keep the good news coming and we will keep delivering the prayers.
Beth
Mark,
We have been reading your blog to keep up-to-date with your progress. We are so pleased to hear of your improvement. It is that sturdy maroon blood that is keeping you strong! We have told every Aggie we know
about you and they are keeping you in their prayers, too. We know you
will be up and about back to your normal self before long and as equally frustrated with your football team as we are. At least basketball season is almost here! God knows the Aggies could use your help right now! You are a very lucky man to have such a supportive wive, friends and family. You have a lot of prayers behind you. We wish you a speedy recovery.
Gig'em and God bless,
Doug and Kelley
We have been reading your blog to keep up-to-date with your progress. We are so pleased to hear of your improvement. It is that sturdy maroon blood that is keeping you strong! We have told every Aggie we know
about you and they are keeping you in their prayers, too. We know you
will be up and about back to your normal self before long and as equally frustrated with your football team as we are. At least basketball season is almost here! God knows the Aggies could use your help right now! You are a very lucky man to have such a supportive wive, friends and family. You have a lot of prayers behind you. We wish you a speedy recovery.
Gig'em and God bless,
Doug and Kelley
Hey Mark and Stephanie! I just wanted to let you both know that Kevin and I are thinking about both of you and praying that you will be back to yourself asap. Stephanie, there is a package floating around Canada somewhere for you. I told Jackee and she said that she would take care of it. All of us here at NewWave will continue to pray and keep things moving as smoothly as possible so tell Mark not to worry.........it is all under control. If we can help with anything, please let us know and God Bless both of you!!
Thank you,
Kristi Goetz
Accounts Payable
NewWave Communications
Thank you,
Kristi Goetz
Accounts Payable
NewWave Communications
Stephanie,
Hello!! Brian and I are so glad you were able to transfer Mark back to the states. I know having him closer to home is one less worry for you. We have both been remembering you, Mark and your families in our prayers. By now, I am sure that you know this is a long road....but keep the faith, roll with the punches, and remember that to win the war, you must first win the battles. We will continue to remember all of you in our prayers and wish Mark the speediest of recoveries. If there is anything AT ALL that you need, just let us know.
Take care and God Bless,
Brian and Leigh Anna Manley
Hello!! Brian and I are so glad you were able to transfer Mark back to the states. I know having him closer to home is one less worry for you. We have both been remembering you, Mark and your families in our prayers. By now, I am sure that you know this is a long road....but keep the faith, roll with the punches, and remember that to win the war, you must first win the battles. We will continue to remember all of you in our prayers and wish Mark the speediest of recoveries. If there is anything AT ALL that you need, just let us know.
Take care and God Bless,
Brian and Leigh Anna Manley
Slowly but surely
Since yesterday morning the ct of Mark's chest and internal organs all came back very good. The doctor said that as far as his internal injuries are concerned,we are now in the time healing and he is well on the way of recovery of these injuries. He remainded sedated as they had to do so to accomplish the testing. Mark continues to breath very well on his own even though he is still on the vent. Dr. Myer a critical care doctor came and explained that the goal now is to back off the sedative and try to get him to start responding to commands. He will have to be about to accomplish this to come off the vent. The doctor explained this will be a slow process and somewhat trial by error to find the right balance of medications to accomplish this.
The wound care specialist visited late yesterday and was able to upgrade him to a much bigger and better (Cadillac type) bed. (Sarah you would be so proud.) He looks much more comfortable.
Stephanie G. convinced me of the importance of going home to the Bedell's apartment for a good nights rest and I am feeling revived this morning.
The nurse said it was a tough night for Mark and the new sedative was not going to be the right medicine for him. They put him back on the sedative he has been on to attempt to calm and comfort him. We are anxiously awaiting this day to unfold and see how God's will will be done. Please pray that they find the right sedative that will work for him and that he will respond to commands to increase his chances of getting off the vent.
Love,
Stephanie 1 and Stephanie 2
The wound care specialist visited late yesterday and was able to upgrade him to a much bigger and better (Cadillac type) bed. (Sarah you would be so proud.) He looks much more comfortable.
Stephanie G. convinced me of the importance of going home to the Bedell's apartment for a good nights rest and I am feeling revived this morning.
The nurse said it was a tough night for Mark and the new sedative was not going to be the right medicine for him. They put him back on the sedative he has been on to attempt to calm and comfort him. We are anxiously awaiting this day to unfold and see how God's will will be done. Please pray that they find the right sedative that will work for him and that he will respond to commands to increase his chances of getting off the vent.
Love,
Stephanie 1 and Stephanie 2
Monday, October 22, 2007
Monday a.m.
Good morning!!
Happy to report that it was another uneventful night for Mark and another good 7 hours of sleep for Stephanie!
There really hasn't been any change in Mark's condition since yesturday afternoon. He continues to do really well with his breathing which is wonderful. For the night they did put his oxygen to 30% which meant that Mark inniated his breathing and the ventilator would just give him a little extra kick!
Mark does have a big morning lined up. They are going to do a MRI of brain, chest and stomach so he will be out of the room for a while. We don't think that we will see the doctor until he gets the results back so I really don't think they will make the decision about taking him off the ventilater until all his results are back.
Stephanie did get some wonderful visitors last night. We forgot the computer back at the apartment so i have hunted down internet access in the medical building so Stephanie is not with me right now so I apologize that I can't do a bettter job with everyones names!! Salma from the church came up and that meant so much to Stephanie and I know Mark as well. Her prayers and incredible wisdom continue to lift Stephanie up. She brought all the cards and pictures that had come from the church and Stephanie and I really enjoyed going through and reading all the wonderful things that everyone had to say about Mark and Stephanie as well. Salma and Stephanie and Mark spent quality time in prayer and reading and talking with her later I could see how much that helped her. We also REALLY appreciated the fact that she sent up a home cooked meal!!! Though i have to say that we are not complaining at all about the food in the cafeteria, they have Krispy Kremes, which for two Sikeston girls is very exciting!!
Later in the evening there were two missionaries, Elder McGaughlan and his companion came to pray with Mark and Stephanie. We both really enjoyed their visit and he did a great job of educating me more on the Morman church.
All the prayers and well wishes are so appreciated by Mark and Stephanie and it has been such a blessing for me to be able to be available to Stephanie during this very difficult time. As i watch them together you can feel the love that they have for each other and i feel so incredibly blessed to be in the presence of such a beautiful love. Duty calls and i will be leaving this a.m. to go back to Sikeston. My sister Stephanie will be taking over for me and i know that she will do a very good job. She is much more efficiant than i am!! I hate the idea of leaving them as I know that Mark is going to be making incredible stides forward over the next few days and would love to be there to see it but I also know that there are so many people standing in line waiting to there for them as well and I apprecaite so much being able to be here for time that i have.
There might not be a posting again until late this afternoon or this evening but don't anyone be concerned, everything is going very well there just might be any news until then.
WOW, GREAT NEWS TO REPORT!!!!! Stephanie just gave me a complete heart attack!! I am somewhere in this huge complex posting this and Stephanie just come running into the room and MARK JUST RESPONDED TO HIS FIRST QUESTION!!! After i realized what was going on i am sure this very serious phyisian next to me is going to be talking all day about the two crazy ladies all but jumping around in circles. Matt Raymond and his wife are up visiting and Matt asked Mark if he had seen his parents and he shuck his head no!!!! We have felt all along that he is there and know what we have been saying and now we have conformation!!!! I have got to run up there and check on him I told Stephanie she had to get back there and again feel so blessed to be here to witness all of God's miracles!!!
God Bless you all,
Sarah Garner
Happy to report that it was another uneventful night for Mark and another good 7 hours of sleep for Stephanie!
There really hasn't been any change in Mark's condition since yesturday afternoon. He continues to do really well with his breathing which is wonderful. For the night they did put his oxygen to 30% which meant that Mark inniated his breathing and the ventilator would just give him a little extra kick!
Mark does have a big morning lined up. They are going to do a MRI of brain, chest and stomach so he will be out of the room for a while. We don't think that we will see the doctor until he gets the results back so I really don't think they will make the decision about taking him off the ventilater until all his results are back.
Stephanie did get some wonderful visitors last night. We forgot the computer back at the apartment so i have hunted down internet access in the medical building so Stephanie is not with me right now so I apologize that I can't do a bettter job with everyones names!! Salma from the church came up and that meant so much to Stephanie and I know Mark as well. Her prayers and incredible wisdom continue to lift Stephanie up. She brought all the cards and pictures that had come from the church and Stephanie and I really enjoyed going through and reading all the wonderful things that everyone had to say about Mark and Stephanie as well. Salma and Stephanie and Mark spent quality time in prayer and reading and talking with her later I could see how much that helped her. We also REALLY appreciated the fact that she sent up a home cooked meal!!! Though i have to say that we are not complaining at all about the food in the cafeteria, they have Krispy Kremes, which for two Sikeston girls is very exciting!!
Later in the evening there were two missionaries, Elder McGaughlan and his companion came to pray with Mark and Stephanie. We both really enjoyed their visit and he did a great job of educating me more on the Morman church.
All the prayers and well wishes are so appreciated by Mark and Stephanie and it has been such a blessing for me to be able to be available to Stephanie during this very difficult time. As i watch them together you can feel the love that they have for each other and i feel so incredibly blessed to be in the presence of such a beautiful love. Duty calls and i will be leaving this a.m. to go back to Sikeston. My sister Stephanie will be taking over for me and i know that she will do a very good job. She is much more efficiant than i am!! I hate the idea of leaving them as I know that Mark is going to be making incredible stides forward over the next few days and would love to be there to see it but I also know that there are so many people standing in line waiting to there for them as well and I apprecaite so much being able to be here for time that i have.
There might not be a posting again until late this afternoon or this evening but don't anyone be concerned, everything is going very well there just might be any news until then.
WOW, GREAT NEWS TO REPORT!!!!! Stephanie just gave me a complete heart attack!! I am somewhere in this huge complex posting this and Stephanie just come running into the room and MARK JUST RESPONDED TO HIS FIRST QUESTION!!! After i realized what was going on i am sure this very serious phyisian next to me is going to be talking all day about the two crazy ladies all but jumping around in circles. Matt Raymond and his wife are up visiting and Matt asked Mark if he had seen his parents and he shuck his head no!!!! We have felt all along that he is there and know what we have been saying and now we have conformation!!!! I have got to run up there and check on him I told Stephanie she had to get back there and again feel so blessed to be here to witness all of God's miracles!!!
God Bless you all,
Sarah Garner
Sunday, October 21, 2007
Mark felt your prayers!!!!
Mark has had a very eventful last couple hours, and it is all good!! They continued to back down his sedative around 9:45 a.m. and by 10:00 a.m. he was really moving around. They eventually got to the point that they had completely STOPPED the sedative and let me tell you, Marks arms and legs work just fine!!!! For almost two hours they allowed him to be without the sedative and he was not getting any oxygen, he was breathing perfectly on his own. When the doctor came in Mark responded to most of his commands. He moved his hands, legs and even toes when the doctor asked. There was discussion today about getting him off the ventilator since he was doing so well breathing on his own. The doctor feels like he needs another 24 hours and they will reevalute him at that time. When we asked about how the pneumonia was responding to the antibiotics he said he does not see any traces of it any more!! They will probably have him off the antibiotics in the next couple days!! ANSWERED PRAYERS!!!
He continues to really respond to Stephanie's voice and if she lets go of his hands to rub on his feet he will start turning his head back and forth as if trying to find where she went. The swelling in his hands, feet and face is MUCH better today. Since his kidney function is continuing to be good they increased the diuretics and the fluid is really being flushed out of his system. It is nice to see the Mark Anderson chin and dimple!!
Stephanie is a trooper!! We had the conversation around 10 that hundreds of people would be entering into church services and that Mark would be getting hundreds of prayers during the next two hours. We had no doubt as we watched Mark respond and continue to breath on his own that he wasn't feeling each and every one of those prayers. Please keep them coming as they lift Stephanie's spirits and Mark continues to improve.
We should have a couple hours of little activity as Mark rests from his big a.m. they gave him a light sedative so he should sleep for a while. We will update later in the day!!!
Sarah and Stephanie
P.S. You can email comments to Marks email address and Stephanie can post them for all to read.
He continues to really respond to Stephanie's voice and if she lets go of his hands to rub on his feet he will start turning his head back and forth as if trying to find where she went. The swelling in his hands, feet and face is MUCH better today. Since his kidney function is continuing to be good they increased the diuretics and the fluid is really being flushed out of his system. It is nice to see the Mark Anderson chin and dimple!!
Stephanie is a trooper!! We had the conversation around 10 that hundreds of people would be entering into church services and that Mark would be getting hundreds of prayers during the next two hours. We had no doubt as we watched Mark respond and continue to breath on his own that he wasn't feeling each and every one of those prayers. Please keep them coming as they lift Stephanie's spirits and Mark continues to improve.
We should have a couple hours of little activity as Mark rests from his big a.m. they gave him a light sedative so he should sleep for a while. We will update later in the day!!!
Sarah and Stephanie
P.S. You can email comments to Marks email address and Stephanie can post them for all to read.
Sunday Morning Update
It's a good thing Mark was able to get rested up yesterday because he has a lot going on today. One of his doctor's was in early and they have decreased his oxygen to see what his lungs are capable of doing. In typical Mark fashion he has impressed them. He is taking good deep breaths and keeping all of his oxygen levels high. The nurse used the term "athletic lungs". His physical therapist has been in and they have begun exercising Mark to keep his muscles working. We were also visited this morning by Dr. Jeanne Cleavland (a personal friend of Larry Eby's) and she is very encouraged by the progress he is making.
As for me...Sarah forced me into a 7 hour sleep marathon. It's just what I needed to recharge my battery to be strong for Mark.
We will continue to post as the day progresses.
Love,
Stephanie & Sarah
As for me...Sarah forced me into a 7 hour sleep marathon. It's just what I needed to recharge my battery to be strong for Mark.
We will continue to post as the day progresses.
Love,
Stephanie & Sarah
Saturday, October 20, 2007
Saturday evening
Though the day was very quiet for a while, the afternoon was busy for Mark. The Doctors came in and switched his main line from the groin area to back in his neck (it was moved to the groin for travel). They also changed his feeding tube from his mouth to his nose. They explained why but with our limited medical knowledge we both just nodded our heads and said "Yeah, that makes sense" and then they left and we were clueless. Whatever the reason they assured us that it was the thing to do. Something about bypassing the stomach to get it further into the digestive tract. To switch all these things out they had to sedate him again so he has been pretty quiet since around 4 o'clock. He continues to react to Stephanie and as she talks to him (she sang to him once but he clearly was not impressed so she is sticking with just talking!!) it is comforting to know that he is reaching out to her.
All of his test results continue to come back good. His kidneys are functioning normally and he has not run a fever at all today. We really don't know what tomorrow will hold. The Doctor came in around 10 this a.m. and will be here the same time tomorrow. You can clearly see that this hospital is getting their own baseline data and today was the day to get him aclimated to this hospitals way of doing things.
Stephanie has had a long day. More than anything she is exhausted so as much as possible she has napped today. It is only in short shifts but seems to recharge her enough to keep her going. She continues to need prayers of strength as Mark continues to need prayers of healing. She is so thankful for all the prayers and well wishes so please keep them coming.
Will update again in the morning.
Sarah Garner
All of his test results continue to come back good. His kidneys are functioning normally and he has not run a fever at all today. We really don't know what tomorrow will hold. The Doctor came in around 10 this a.m. and will be here the same time tomorrow. You can clearly see that this hospital is getting their own baseline data and today was the day to get him aclimated to this hospitals way of doing things.
Stephanie has had a long day. More than anything she is exhausted so as much as possible she has napped today. It is only in short shifts but seems to recharge her enough to keep her going. She continues to need prayers of strength as Mark continues to need prayers of healing. She is so thankful for all the prayers and well wishes so please keep them coming.
Will update again in the morning.
Sarah Garner
St. Louis!!!!! AMERICA!!!
Hello from St. Louis. What a wonderful thing to be able to say. We are so relieved to see them. The doctors are looking over all the information from Canada. They are wanting him to rest from the journey. From all indications, Mark made the travel well. He is responding actively to Stephanie when she is talking to him. Mark is definitely there and wanting everyone to know that he is on his way back. Stephanie continues to amaze all of us at how well she is coping with all of this. She is as beautiful as she always is, and many of us know that there are few of us that can pull that off after what she has been through. She is taking a NAP! The doctors have asked for little visitors and to limit to family only. We know everyone is anxious to see him, but right now he needs to be kept calm so he can heal. He did swell some from the trip. The doctors and nurses will give him a diuretic after the kidney test. The Bedells have offered the use of their apartment in St. Louis. MANY THANKS TO THE BEDELLS! Please continue the prayers. Mark is at St. John's Mercy Medical, ICU. We will update this evening on Mark as the day progresses.
Calbert, Jackee, and Sarah
Calbert, Jackee, and Sarah
Hunting Mark Makes it to the good old USA
Thank you Jesus!!! We got him back into the United States safely. He is such a strong man. I know he had to be scared out of his mind. I know I was. It may have been the longest 2 hour plane trip ever. It was a smooth trip I just pretended George Rand was the pilot and he would take care of everything. We are exhausted but we are here and all is well. They are working him over right now.
The Canadians were so nice to him one of his many nurses (Nurse Pat,) said, "Once in 3 or 4 years we get a patient that we all love and want to follow up on. Mark is that one patient". Even though he never said a word or looked into any of their eyes they are new he was special. They pampered us and even sent some rough rider t-shirts home for the boys.
I am going to grab a bagel and catch a quick nap in the waiting area. So stop worrying we are fine. Sarah and maybe Jackee and M. Calbert will be by to check on us in the morning.
I love you all,
Stephanie
The Canadians were so nice to him one of his many nurses (Nurse Pat,) said, "Once in 3 or 4 years we get a patient that we all love and want to follow up on. Mark is that one patient". Even though he never said a word or looked into any of their eyes they are new he was special. They pampered us and even sent some rough rider t-shirts home for the boys.
I am going to grab a bagel and catch a quick nap in the waiting area. So stop worrying we are fine. Sarah and maybe Jackee and M. Calbert will be by to check on us in the morning.
I love you all,
Stephanie
Friday, October 19, 2007
Most up to date information....
Mark is still in Regina General Hospital, but his doctors have cleared him to fly back to the states. We are scheduled to depart Regina at 9:30pm and anticipate a safe arrival in St. Louis @ St. John's Mercy Hospital around 3:15am. We are flying in on a Canadian Global life flight with a Doctor/Nurse and R.T. We have had a challenging day with Mark's blood pressure, labored breathing and fever. He still in critical condition and has a lot of infection in his lungs. His doctors feel as if it is safe for him to travel. Dr. Jones expects us to be in ICU in St. Louis for 1-2 weeks if everything progresses as he would expect. As much as I want to see and hug each of you and I want Mark to hear your voices. I don't think it would be a good idea to have any visitors for a few more days. Justin and Steven will be trying to come up (with there grandfather, I think) Saturday evening or Sunday. Sarah will come to take care of me. After we get him back to consciousness we will schedule for others to come for a visit. Feel free to call me anytime after we get back to the states. I will make contact if I need anything once I get to St. Louis. I am not sure where I will be staying but I know there are many options. Mark's sister Karen is working to get a flight back to Utah and his parents are planning to fly back to Houston and drive to Missouri over the course of the next week or so. Please pray for a safe flight. The prayers are keeping us a float.
Thursday, October 18, 2007
Stephanie said... Dear Family and Friends, Wanted to give a quick update before morning. Karen arrived safely and Nickie will be leaving in a few minutes. Mark's condition is stable. They preformed a ct scan and a chest xray this afternoon. We should get the results in a few hours. Not many other changes they kept him sedated most of the day. Trying to get him back to the states asap. Tune in tommorrow for more up to date info. Stephanie P.S. Please don't stop the prayers.
Oh my goodness!!!! I have the absolute best friends in the entire world. The waiting room volunteer just wheeled in a humongeous box!!! It was overflowing with everything we have been needing and missing. The robe you sent for Mark was awesome...I wrapped it around me and did a little dance around the waiting room. Everyone here can't believe the American support we are getting. I'm gonna be the cutest, sweatsuit wearing, gourmet popcorn eating, carmex wearing, Oprah reading, comfortable puffy eyed wife in this Canadian hospital!!! OK I must admit the pictures made me cry, Sarah's brutally honest comments made me laugh and I am amazed you all really know me so well. It was perfect, for a brief moment I didn't want to leave the BOX because I felt like I was home. I am getting by on faith minute by minute and your unconditional love is working. Gotta run check on the sleepy (but still really sexy) American dude in ICU. Love, Stephanie
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Dear Family and Friends,Mark's doctor was in this morning and reported that he is showing improvements. His respiratory functions are better...needing less help from the ventilator. The antibiotic's seem to be fighting the infection. No fever throughout the night. He has developed a rash probably due to some of the antibiotics but they working to specifically identify the exact type of bacteria. White blood cell count is higher than he would like but not unexpected. His hemoglobin levels have been good. Kidney's seem to be back to normal. Plan for the next 24 hours is to continue the antibiotics and perform a baseline ct scan. They will not attempt to wake him today. All our love, Stephanie & Nickie
October 17, 2007 9:03am
Here come more troops! Mark's favorite (and only) sister Karen is flying in from Utah today and his parents will arrive there tomorrow. Karen will stay for a week and his parents will stay indefinitely.
We are so grateful to Stephanie's family for the immediate support that they have shown for Mark and Stephanie! Nickie was there before we could blink and she came in from Alaska. It couldn't have been an easy trip. And Christi was barely kept from flying in from Trinidad to take care of everyone and everything like the nurturer she is. It is no surprise to anyone since we all recognize how wonderful Stephanie is, and so she must have come from a fabulously warm and loving family!
And of course, friends from home are a huge help, too! The huntin' buds were stayed in Canada until Stephanie was settled. Everyone is helping Clayson feel like he's having the vacation of a lifetime! Mark and Stephanie truly appreciate everything you're doing and have already done.
Please feel free to read and add your own supportive comments to each of the blog postings. They're a great support to Stephanie and before we know it Mark will be trying to work from a laptop so he'll be able to read them all, too!
Thank you!
Mark's Family
We are so grateful to Stephanie's family for the immediate support that they have shown for Mark and Stephanie! Nickie was there before we could blink and she came in from Alaska. It couldn't have been an easy trip. And Christi was barely kept from flying in from Trinidad to take care of everyone and everything like the nurturer she is. It is no surprise to anyone since we all recognize how wonderful Stephanie is, and so she must have come from a fabulously warm and loving family!
And of course, friends from home are a huge help, too! The huntin' buds were stayed in Canada until Stephanie was settled. Everyone is helping Clayson feel like he's having the vacation of a lifetime! Mark and Stephanie truly appreciate everything you're doing and have already done.
Please feel free to read and add your own supportive comments to each of the blog postings. They're a great support to Stephanie and before we know it Mark will be trying to work from a laptop so he'll be able to read them all, too!
Thank you!
Mark's Family
October 16, 2007 10:56pm
This message is from Stephanie:
All,Bishop Smith arrived late this evening to give Mark a blessing to ensure a restful night sleep. at this time there are no major changes in Marks condition. The vascular surgeon, Dr. McCarvel stopped in to check the progress of the aoric endograft (T.E.V.A.R); reported no complications! Mark's kidneys are fully functioning. 2 liters of fluid were drained from the pick lines in his lungs. This decreases the oxygen levels which is good because it will allow him to breath on his own. The lab tests for pnemonia are not back as of today but they are aggressively treating the infection with a cocktail of antibiotics. Thats about all for now but will continue to provide daily updates.Christina, Justin & Steven,Clayson will be thrilled to see you all this weekend! I tell your dad daily how much you both love and miss him. I am so blessed to have such good friends and family and I want you all to know I have been at peace knowing Clayson is in such good hands. Although my heart is heavy that Nickie will soon be heading back to Alaska, she will never really know how much she has helped me through one of the most difficult trials I have ever had to endure. She has held me, cried with me, sympathized with me, rationalized with me, laughed with me. She has shown a true and never ceasing love to Me and Mark. I am looking forward to having Karen and Mark's parents here to provide comfort for me and Mark.
I love you all,
Stephanie
All,Bishop Smith arrived late this evening to give Mark a blessing to ensure a restful night sleep. at this time there are no major changes in Marks condition. The vascular surgeon, Dr. McCarvel stopped in to check the progress of the aoric endograft (T.E.V.A.R); reported no complications! Mark's kidneys are fully functioning. 2 liters of fluid were drained from the pick lines in his lungs. This decreases the oxygen levels which is good because it will allow him to breath on his own. The lab tests for pnemonia are not back as of today but they are aggressively treating the infection with a cocktail of antibiotics. Thats about all for now but will continue to provide daily updates.Christina, Justin & Steven,Clayson will be thrilled to see you all this weekend! I tell your dad daily how much you both love and miss him. I am so blessed to have such good friends and family and I want you all to know I have been at peace knowing Clayson is in such good hands. Although my heart is heavy that Nickie will soon be heading back to Alaska, she will never really know how much she has helped me through one of the most difficult trials I have ever had to endure. She has held me, cried with me, sympathized with me, rationalized with me, laughed with me. She has shown a true and never ceasing love to Me and Mark. I am looking forward to having Karen and Mark's parents here to provide comfort for me and Mark.
I love you all,
Stephanie
October 16, 2007 4:15pm
Mark remained stable throughout the day. Based on the last update we have been waiting to hear about the possiblity of pnemonia. They have been an agressive treatment w/ antibotics. His oxygen levels have decreased from 45% to 35% therefore Dr. Jones ordered a CTscan and place "pick tail" one each side of the lungs to drain fluids. His kidney functions continue to improve. His range of motion is good in his extremities based on treatment given to Mark by the specialist. They have decided to let Mark rest and not attempt to wake him today. The staff is very attentive. Updates will follow.The support from home is positively overwhelming and carries Stephanie through the day. Keep it comin! Love you all!Nickie & Stephanie
October 16, 2007 9:29AM
Good Morning, Included is the latest update for family/friends & loved ones.October 15th; approximately 11:30pmMark began waking up own his own. Sweating profusely from his forehead & tops of his hands. Marks legs & arms began to move. His chest & shoulders moving in motion as he was attempting to sit up. Blood pressure began to rise then fall & heart rate was dropping. Mark tried to open his eyes. Staff assisted in calming him down by speaking to him in a low calm voice w/out placing him back on sedative. They escorted Stephanie & I to the waiting room. The entire incident lasted approximately 5-10 minutes. Mark's vital returned to "normal". Staff did a CTScan and EKG. Everything looked fine; his electrolytes were a bit low. They could not tell us exactly why his heart rate began dropping however contributed to the bruising around his heart.Tuesday, October 16th...AMMark continued to rest well throughout the night. This morning they placed him back on a "Light" sedative. The sedative they are using allows Mark to wake up easier on his own. For example; Nurse Sherrie turned off the sedative @ 8am this morning by 8:20am he was attempting to wake. Mark is requiring more oxygen than before. Staff is running tests to rule out possible pnemonia. Unfortunately pnemonia is very comman w/ patients utilizing a ventalator. Lab results will be back in 12-24hrs. In order for staff to allow Mark to wake up he must remain calm and his vitals stable due to the surgery on his aorta; if things escalate too rapidly damage could be caused to the aorta. They have been attempting to adjust levels on meds to find the exact combination which works best for him all things considered. Stephanie is doing as well as can be expected. She is moved by the emails/messages she is receiving. She needs all comfort and encouragement you can offer now is one of Stephanie's assests she is very scared and far from home. Please continue communcating w/ her via all avenues as you have. She does receive all messages and responds as quickly as she can. They do not allow cell phones in Mark's room and this is where she spends the majority of her time. On a side note; I will need to return to Alaska this week. I have an open ticket however Thursday seems to be the day I will depart. Stephanie does not need to be alone. I know some of you have offered to come up however if all of those who are in a position to stay could comminicate with one another regarding the person who can come up to support Mark & Stephanie, it would be much appreciated. I know Stephanie talked w/ Karen, Mark's sister and they are attempting to make arrangements however a back up plan might be a good idea; just in case Stephanie was thinking one of Mark's brothers or close friends would be very good for Mark as far as encouragement and strength. Stephanie would also benefit from female support and compassion. I understand how difficult it may be to drop everthing however this is really what is needed by Mark & Stephanie the most at this point.In closing; Mark's progressing well. Two steps forward one step back...this is to be expected in his condition. He will pull through however we must be patient and continue trusting in the Lord and all things good in the world.We will attempt to update the site daily or if things change. Please share this site w/ everyone.Love,Nickie cell phone: 907.244.0108; pls feel free to call if needed.
Monday, October 15, 2007
Sorry it has been a long day and I do not think I will be ableto afford my cell phone billl its about 1 dollar a minute and I have been on the phone a lot. It takesme about 15 minutes to send 1 email from his phone. He is doing good still sleeping because when he starts waking heis to aggitated and they have to sedate him. He is off the most of the meds and his swelling is better. Love, Stephanie
Dear family and friends,Included is the latest update as of Monday,October 15th; 4pm. Everything is going the way it should. He is still in critical condition however is stablizing. The next step will be to remove the ventelator. I am especially grateful for the many many friends/family who are extending their time, energy, love and effort to comfort and protect Clayson in our absence.Please continue to keep us in your prayers. I am confident we will prevail.Words cannot describe our love for all of you. We hope Darrin arrived home safely. Larry is in route to Sikeston and should be him tonight. Please take care of them; they are truly angels who walk among us. Love,Stephanie
Stephanie received this thoughtful message and wanted it to be posted.
Dear Stephanie,I feel compelled to write to you. I pray my words are of comfortto you.My thoughts Keep turning to you throughout the day. I Knowwhen crisishits a family, the Comforter carries you through each moment onthe wings of God 's eternal love. I miss those special moments aftercrisispasses and the days become "bacK to business." During crisis,you havesearching times and reflection on eternity and what it reallymeans to you. Those times are what shape our character and refine ourlove if weallow God to mold our soft hearts into pure life-giving vessels.Today we watched a small segment on Paul the apostle in SundaySchool. (We all longed for you and your husband to be there.) At theend of histestimony to King Agrippa (when he almost convinces him to be aChristian) they take Paul away and then they repeat his words:(2Corinth 11) 25 Thrice was I beaten with rods, once was I stoned, thrice Isufferedshipwreck, a night and a day I have been in the deep;26 [In] journeyings often, [in] perils of waters, [in] perils ofrobbers, [in] perils by [mine own] countrymen, [in] perils bythe heathen, [in] perils in the city, [in] perils in the wilderness,[in]perils in the sea, [in] perils among false brethren;27 In weariness and painfulness, in watchings often, in hungerandthirst, in fastings often, in cold and nakedness. But Paul says to King Agrippa, "I would to God, that not onlythou,but also all that hear me this day, were both almost, andaltogethersuch as I am, except these bonds."Because Paul Knew adversity can bring a certain refining thatbrings us closer to the Savior, he hoped all could learn that when weenter intothe "fellowship of His suffering," we begin to understand morefully theatonement of Christ.I Know what it is like to sit at your husband's side and fearfor his life and health. I pray for You! How I pray and fast for you. "And weknow that all things work together for good to them that loveGod, tothem who are the called according to [his] purpose." Romans 8:28 All these things will work together for much Good because I Knowhowmuch your family loves God. Watch for the miracles that willtake placeall around you. I am not just talking about the miracle ofhealing. Lives will be changed, hearts that seemed impenitrable will besoftened,the love of God will shine forth, all the hospital staff willsee aspecial light glowing about your union, true friends will bebonded, and Charity will abound.May Christ stay with You. He will be waLking by your side andholdingyou when it seems difficult to bear! It will not be long untilthisadversity passes and the dawn of a new morning will come. You Know your ward family stands ready to help in any way.Forever your sisterAngie KempeHymn 1651. Abide with me; 'tis eventide.The day is past and gone;The shadows of the evening fall; The night is coming on.Within my heart a welcome guest,Within my home abide.[Chorus]O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide.O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide. 2. Abide with me; 'tis eventide.Thy walk today with meHas made my heart within me burn,As I communed with thee.Thy earnest words have filled my soulAnd kept me near thy side.[Chorus]O Savior, stay this night with me; Behold, 'tis eventide.O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide.3. Abide with me; 'tis eventide,And lone will be the nightIf I cannot commune with theeNor find in thee my light. The darkness of the world, I fear,Would in my home abide.[Chorus]O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide.O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide.
Dear Stephanie,I feel compelled to write to you. I pray my words are of comfortto you.My thoughts Keep turning to you throughout the day. I Knowwhen crisishits a family, the Comforter carries you through each moment onthe wings of God 's eternal love. I miss those special moments aftercrisispasses and the days become "bacK to business." During crisis,you havesearching times and reflection on eternity and what it reallymeans to you. Those times are what shape our character and refine ourlove if weallow God to mold our soft hearts into pure life-giving vessels.Today we watched a small segment on Paul the apostle in SundaySchool. (We all longed for you and your husband to be there.) At theend of histestimony to King Agrippa (when he almost convinces him to be aChristian) they take Paul away and then they repeat his words:(2Corinth 11) 25 Thrice was I beaten with rods, once was I stoned, thrice Isufferedshipwreck, a night and a day I have been in the deep;26 [In] journeyings often, [in] perils of waters, [in] perils ofrobbers, [in] perils by [mine own] countrymen, [in] perils bythe heathen, [in] perils in the city, [in] perils in the wilderness,[in]perils in the sea, [in] perils among false brethren;27 In weariness and painfulness, in watchings often, in hungerandthirst, in fastings often, in cold and nakedness. But Paul says to King Agrippa, "I would to God, that not onlythou,but also all that hear me this day, were both almost, andaltogethersuch as I am, except these bonds."Because Paul Knew adversity can bring a certain refining thatbrings us closer to the Savior, he hoped all could learn that when weenter intothe "fellowship of His suffering," we begin to understand morefully theatonement of Christ.I Know what it is like to sit at your husband's side and fearfor his life and health. I pray for You! How I pray and fast for you. "And weknow that all things work together for good to them that loveGod, tothem who are the called according to [his] purpose." Romans 8:28 All these things will work together for much Good because I Knowhowmuch your family loves God. Watch for the miracles that willtake placeall around you. I am not just talking about the miracle ofhealing. Lives will be changed, hearts that seemed impenitrable will besoftened,the love of God will shine forth, all the hospital staff willsee aspecial light glowing about your union, true friends will bebonded, and Charity will abound.May Christ stay with You. He will be waLking by your side andholdingyou when it seems difficult to bear! It will not be long untilthisadversity passes and the dawn of a new morning will come. You Know your ward family stands ready to help in any way.Forever your sisterAngie KempeHymn 1651. Abide with me; 'tis eventide.The day is past and gone;The shadows of the evening fall; The night is coming on.Within my heart a welcome guest,Within my home abide.[Chorus]O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide.O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide. 2. Abide with me; 'tis eventide.Thy walk today with meHas made my heart within me burn,As I communed with thee.Thy earnest words have filled my soulAnd kept me near thy side.[Chorus]O Savior, stay this night with me; Behold, 'tis eventide.O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide.3. Abide with me; 'tis eventide,And lone will be the nightIf I cannot commune with theeNor find in thee my light. The darkness of the world, I fear,Would in my home abide.[Chorus]O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide.O Savior, stay this night with me;Behold, 'tis eventide.
Sunday, October 14, 2007
This is just a little blog to update all the concerned folks who love Mark and want him to get well soon! Hopefully he will be back to work and hunting big game again before you know it!
As of late Sunday night this is what Stephanie has to say about Mark's situation:
"The prayers are working. Mark was breathing on his own for many hours today. He is getting stronger and his lungs are functioning. He is still unconcious but His kidneys are begining to function. It is just going to take time. we are very optimistic, he may be off the vent in a few days. We are surrounded by people that love us. Please pass this along to any of our
friends and family. We love and cherish each of you."
Thanks for your love and prayers,
Mark's family
As of late Sunday night this is what Stephanie has to say about Mark's situation:
"The prayers are working. Mark was breathing on his own for many hours today. He is getting stronger and his lungs are functioning. He is still unconcious but His kidneys are begining to function. It is just going to take time. we are very optimistic, he may be off the vent in a few days. We are surrounded by people that love us. Please pass this along to any of our
friends and family. We love and cherish each of you."
Thanks for your love and prayers,
Mark's family
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